Let's Talk About Sex!

Issue 12

I smoke a lot. Do you think it will affect my sex life? I am not sexually active now but I just want to know if this will affect me later?

I have been in a long term relationship with my boyfriend for three years. We have been living together. We have had an active sex life and we both enjoyed the intimacy. But somehow the magic of sex...

I think my boyfriend may have given me herpes. What should I do now? Should I tell him?

My sister is 27 years old and just got pregnant with her first child. I have suggested her to go to the gynecologist but she says she’s shy and uncertain of what they will do to her. What can I do?

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Issue 11

I've been masturbating since last year. I was naturally curious about masturbation and googled it one day and in a website found out ways to masturbate. And I've been doing it since. It’s...

My girlfriend and I have been talking about having sex for few months now. Only talking, not really doing. She hinted that she might be ready. My problem is that I do not seem to be able to find the...

Is it normal to have sexual feelings towards the opposite sex in your family?

What is a lubricant?

I just don't get how HIV works! As far as I have understood it, if a person has unsafe sex with more than one person he/she gets infected right? Then what about my uncle who just had a daughter...

My foreskin doesn't come all the way down. As in it does but not very easily. Is this a common problem in uncircumcised men or is there something wrong with me? Is there some way to cure this?...

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Issue 10

I’m an unmarried girl. I was sexually exploited when I was about 11 yrs and I don’t think I am a virgin. Nobody knows about it. I have grown with fear of sex because of my bad memories. Will this...

I learned about sex mostly through my friends. But like me, they really don't know much themselves. I do not know if I should talk to my parents, I mean my mom, about this. I do not want to have...

Before me, my boyfriend's only previous sexual experiences have been with prostitutes. What is the general attitude to prostitution in Nepal? I don't approve of it, and it was a big shock...

Are two condoms better than one for protection from pregnancy/STDs?

Does anal sex feel good? Can one get pregnant by anal sex? Is there at least a 1 percent of chance of that happening?

Is it true that a woman can get pregnant when she's in bed with a guy and they're engaging in foreplay but not having actual sexual intercourse?

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Issue 9

Watching porn movies; is it good or bad?

I am not comfortable with my body. I feel it’s ugly, so I’m not confident to stand naked in front of anybody. I’m a virgin now, but I think it will affect me later, wont it?

My girl says she wants to have sex only after marriage. She is controlling her sexual desire. Is there a problem with controlling sexual desire? Is it possible that she could be using toys?

In our society, it is taboo for men to even touch women while they are having their periods. But I have this great desire of having sex with my wife when she is menstruating. Should I go ahead with...

Is kissing supposed to be erotic or pleasurable? When I see people kiss, I get aroused but when I first kissed my boyfriend, I didn't feel a thing. When I opened my eyes and saw his, then it...

Is every intercourse painful?

Can one get pregnant by anal or oral sex?

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Issue 8

Breasts are a part of your sexuality. I have small breasts and for me this has resulted in a lower self esteem. Will it affect my sex life and other aspects of my life as well?

My wife is 3 months pregnant. So what's the sex 'strategy' like when your wife is pregnant? Will having sex in those months hurt the mother and the baby? What to do?

I don’t know if this question fits this column but I wanted to ask this question; I wonder how the transgendered change their sex organs. I know they take hormones and pills to change their body...

I read in a book that actual intercourse lasts for only 11 minutes. Is that true?

My boyfriend gets erection even when we kiss and he gets carried away. We don't feel comfortable with being physical though we love each other very much. We are not ready yet. This is creating...

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Issue 7

I don’t know if it’s a problem, why do I have so much hair down there? Should I just shave it?

How does one get tested for HIV? Does one have to go to a special clinic, lab or something of that sort?

I kissed this guy whom I thought was sexually attractive. I wanted to make him mine. But I have allergies on my lips now. Is it due to kissing that guy? Does it show I have a (sexually transmitted...

I love my girlfriend but she doesn’t seem interested in sex. What do I do? I don’t want to force her. I want her to want it too because I feel sex is important for us.

Could I get pregnant after having unprotected sex during my periods?

This isn't really a query, but I wanted to share my attitude. I don't even see people expressing their gratitude in the most ordinary place at the most ordinary time. Do you remember a time...

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