I have been masturbating since I could understand things. While I was a kid I couldn’t ejaculate for obvious reasons but after the age of 14 years, I have been ejaculating. I masturbate a lot. I have discovered that my penis is considerably smaller then my peer or friends. How big a problem is this? I masturbate by rubbing my penis against bed, like a virtual sex! So my penis is crooked too! And I have developed marks over it too! So how can I be sure that I’m not underprepared for real sex in future?

It is common for friends to compare the size of their penis. But are you talking about the size of your penis when it is sleeping or erect? Because, the size of your penis when it is not stimulated does not really say how big it will get when excited. It is also totally natural for you to want a bigger penis. Trimming off your pubic hair and taking a hot shower before sex are some of the ways in which your penis can be increased. You could surgically enhance yourself as well, but I think you should consult a doctor before doing that or taking pills for enhancement. Unfortunately, to some, size does matter but I also think it is what you can do with your penis that is more important and your skills at pleasuring a woman that do not involve your penis count a lot as well. Most penises have a slight bend to them. The causes for a crooked penis are usually genetics, accidents, and Peyronie’s disease (I don’t want to freak you out here but you should know that this is caused by build-up of plaque on the penis and is treatable and does not require surgery). If it really worries you, XYZ, I would suggest that you visit a doctor and make sure everything is alright down there. About being prepared for real sex in the future, XYZ, I think this is more of a psychological than a physical preparedness. If you feel confident in whom you are, your sexuality and your feelings about your partner, I think you are as prepared as you can be. It is also great that you are thinking of these things already.