My wife is 3 months pregnant. So what's the sex 'strategy' like when your wife is pregnant? Will having sex in those months hurt the mother and the baby? What to do?

Dear Expecting Dad,

 

That is an excellent question! I am sure that there are a lot of expectant parents out there who are curious to know about safe sexual practices during pregnancy. If your wife is having a normal pregnancy, it is ok to have sex any time during the pregnancy. And regarding your concerns about hurting the baby, you won’t hurt your baby while you are making love. This is because the amniotic sac and the muscles of the uterus are strong and protect the baby. There is also a thick mucus plug that forms in the opening to the uterus (once fertilization occurs) which prevents infections. With respect to sex hurting the mother, it differs from person to person on how sex feels during pregnancy. During pregnancy there is an increased blood flow to the pelvic area and can cause engorgement of the genitals. There is a heightened sensation during this time that can make sex more pleasurable or it can make a person feel uncomfortable. You and your wife should definitely discuss how it feels to her and experiment and adjust your love making so that it is pleasurable for both of you.